A Lot to Share with You!
So, with so much excitement going having the families here with us, it has made it very difficult to WORK! Who wants to work when there is so much loving going on!
But work we must and we are doing so. As has become customary, when we arrive in country one of our first tasks is to visit the orphanages we are working with. It is wonderful to be able to see the children who have been matched with many of you. In addition, we get to see new referrals we have received and any new children to the orphanages. Upon arrival at one of the first orphanages we were greeted by the children singing the song JESUS LOVES US, in ENGLISH!
After the song we were then treated to a display of African dances... and boy can they dance! We couldn't resist joining in! Debra, the Director and a nanny danced with them! We even hooted and hollered with them! The children are precious
and have such wonderful smiles!
We spent the morning going over legal
files and getting menus of what the children eat. Prior to our visits we had asked all
centers to supply us with nutrition menus so that we could make
sure the children were getting the best they could supply. We were very lucky that
the families brought over alot of formula and pedialyte, so we were able to
take alot of that and diapers. We want to assure you that your children are
being well taken care of by the EAC staff. We told them that we would come
back the next day to install a water purification system so that all children
and adults could have clean water without fear of getting sick. They were very excited! Thank you, Chad and Shellie for helping with this mission that is so needed in Congo. Not only id the donate the systems, but they traveled with us on this trip and Chad has been installing the systems. He has also been training Patrick! Every orphanage
we have installed systems has been super grateful. Some had tears in
there eyes. as the need is so great.
The next day we
went to two more orphanages to see more children and install more water purification
systems. The days for us are very long and extremely hot but we cannot worry
about
ourselves, we must move ahead to help the children.
We want to take a quick minute to again thank Margaret for neverending moral and monetary support. We want you to know she is always there to approve what we need and
stands behind us as we make sure all children have good food, and medical
attention.
We were invited to a new center outside of the city. We
had the adventure of a lifetime! As drove and drove (and drove some more), thousands of people were
everywhere. The road got so bad we thought we were going to rip our car in half!
We finally parked the car and got out of the vehicle (Thankfully, the car was still in one piece!) We asked Patrick, who was dressed in his suit, "where
are we going?" His reply, "up that trail a ways". We said, "UP THAT TRAIL A WAYS?" So we walked, and walked, and walked" Finally, at the top of the trail we saw a small center and we were met by a wonderful woman. We were able to visit her orphanage, meet her staff, and then make arrangement's for
her to come to the city. There is so much need in that center that we wanted to
put them all in the car to bring them home and feed them. We are very hopeful that
we can improve the lives of those children and staff. When you see people in such despair, with
nothing to eat and needing so much. it is very humbling. We will keep you posted on this development.
Some of the families have provided their impressions of this trip below. Also include are some pictures. A very special thank you to them!
Debra and Robin
"My
name is Dave Miller and my wife and I have adopted a boy from the DRC. He
has cleared court and we are now in the investigation phase. With the
uncertainty of exit visas and the thought of a delay in bringing my son home, I
took advantage of the opportunity to go and visit the DRC with Robin and Debra
from EAC. Nothing could prepare me for what I have experienced. On the
positive side I have been able to spend a week with my son.
I have also
spent a week with 4 other families who are on the same journey. We
started the week, as strangers and we have quickly become a community. It
has been an incredible experience. I also had the opportunity to visit
the orphanage in Kinshasa. That is the orphanage where my son spent
6 months after he was found abandoned. I am so thankful for the work of
the orphanage and EAC because the alternative for these kids is most likely
death. As the van drove down the garbage and devastation, I could only
think about my idea of needs vs. wants. I put many things in the needs
column when there are clearly wants. On just the one road we drove down I
saw so many people that didn't even have clean water to drink. I
saw little boys 4 or 5 years old carrying large containers filled with
water. I saw hunger, pain and despair everywhere. I wish every
person alive could Make that trip. I think if everyone could smell the
air and experience the intensity and look into the eyes of these children
everyone would be involved with adoption in some capacity. As part of
humanity we have to help the ones who can't help themselves. If adoption
does not fit your family, you should find someone who is adopting and help them
anyway you can."
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| The Miller's son resting after a long day of play! |
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"Our
(long) journey here to Kinshasa and to our little girl has been beyond our
expectations. We knew that it would changes our lives and the lives of these
little ones but we never expected it would change our lives in such profound
ways. The work of our dedicated EAC staff has made such a positive and profound
impact on our trip. Having this experience with other families has certainly
added to our adventure as we have been fortunate to play together and see the
children as they might act in their EAC foster home environments. We are
learning every minute about our little one - what makes them happy and what
types of activities they like (note: all LOVE the pool).
Even today, by 11 am we have been in the pool twice - laughing, jumping, and
bonding. We are so very thankful to have this time to initiate bonding with our
little girl and preparation for our final trip when we can bring her home. With
the dedication of the Kinshasa and US EAC staff, we have been able to bond with
our children in ways we did not expect possible in the short time here. Todd
and I cannot believe we leave tomorrow for home - the time here has flown by -
but we leave with anticipation that we will return to Kinshasa shortly and
bring home our little girl."
Todd and Erika
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"It’s
been one week since we met our children. One amazing, emotional,
fun-filled, enlightening week. It would take pages and pages to explain
how we feel about our son and daughter, and even then we’d only be scratching
the surface. We’ll hold off on that for now and try to explain some of
the other connections that have touched us so deeply this week.
You
see, we are new parents living in a new place establishing new relationships
with our children. We’ve never looked forward so much to any other event
in our lives, and now that we are here—living it—we find ourselves increasingly
grateful for the people who have made it all possible. These are real
people with real lives and real passion for children.
As
my kiddos nap, I look around our flat and see gifts of food and toys from other
adoptive parents who we’ve been blessed (and I don’t use that word lightly) to
share time with here. I think of their helping hands at “le pescine”
making sure each little arm had their water wings, taking photos upon photos,
even backing mama up on her first official blow-out diaper. That’s a
friend right there. To Erika, Todd, Dave, Sara, Bobby, Shellie &
Chad: Thank you for your support and thoughtfulness! We are so glad we
got to share this life-changing experience with each of you.
The
love certainly doesn’t stop there though, folks. Over this week I’ve seen
the Congolese and American EAC staff come and go from Sunny Day many
times. They are consistently seeking ways to meet the practical and
emotional needs of EAC children. Even better, nearly every time one of
the children here sees their smiling faces, they run and leap into their arms
with giggles. This does a mama’s heart good. Again, real people
with real passion for our children. I’ve witnessed our lawyer console a
tearful father. I’ve seen our social workers and caregivers hug tenderly
on our children. And I’ve watched as staff care for each other, friend to
friend. This picture of humanity working together in such an intimate way
for such a beautiful cause is almost too much to take in. I find great
comfort in knowing such loving hearts are caring for our babies while we’re
away. To Patrick and team, Linda, Daniel, Mama Josie, Annie, Jessy, Debra
& Robin: There is no way we’ll ever be able to adequately express our
gratitude for you. Each of you are such an important piece of the bridge
connecting us forever to our children and their country. Can I just say,
“We love you!”
Finally,
we want to thank the very gracious and hard-working team at Sunny Day. To
Papa Zavier, Papa Jacke, Patric, Joseph, Carine, Carlos, Thomas, Pablo, Samba
and Allen: You’ve created a little piece of heaven. We will always,
always remember meeting our children here and truly feel at home in your
presence. Tikala malamu!"
~Strasbaugh
Libota/Family
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